I’ve read several posts and status updates over the past few weeks that reference parents engaging in “Fakebooking”. Fakebooking, if you’re new to the concept, seems to involve a misrepresentation – or only showcasing the very best parenting moments of the day. You know, the perfect pictures of the siblings holding hands or the delicious cookies made from scratch – with three kids under 5. Some moms think that it’s not real. Real parenting involves explosive poop, screaming fits, and a recipe that didn’t work out quite right.
We all know that parenting is hard work. And those days full of parenting fails happen. That’s why I think it’s good to head to Facebook to get or give a virtual high five for a parenting win. Does showcasing the good have to point toward bragging and competition? Or could it simply be that moms like to get a little lift at the end of a long day of parenting?
I say focus on the positive. I’m over at HuffPost Parents with more on “Facebook Perfect Parenting”. Won’t you stop by and leave your thoughts?
See you there!
I completely agree. I gave up Facebook for Lent, and now that I’m away I do not miss the negativity or complaining. I do, however, miss the positive updates from my friends. As a matter of fact, I refuse to post anything negative on FB or Twitter.
Just found your blog today. Loving it. Just followed you on Twitter, too.
I’m so jealous! I really considered that, but with my freelance work I have a certain commitment to use social media. I have, however, returned to tech free weekends and I couldn’t be happier. I feel the same as you – I miss the cute pictures and positive comments – but NOT the rest! Sheesh! It can be negative out there in Facebook world! Thanks for following – looking forward to getting to know you
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